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Workbooks—workbooks focused specifically on recovery for men
Psychological Books—books for men that take a mostly psychological approach to recovery Relational Books—books for men that take a mostly relational and spiritual approach to recovery Personal Stories—stories from men who have faced sexual brokenness and who found healing |
Sexuality—books on the topic of sexuality and sexual purity, but not about addiction
Related Books—books not written about sexual recovery for men, but with a huge amount of overlap in content. DVD Series—DVDs with workbooks that can be done in groups. Coordinators May borrow these DVDs as available form Pure Life Alliance. |
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First Steps: A Mentored Guide to Start Rebuilding Your Purity
by Pure Life Alliance #CommissionsEarned This is a book written by Pure Life Alliance leaders. It is intended to provide a man newly on his purity journey and his mentor an environment to explore important concepts he needs to address. Find it on Amazon and look for it in iBooks. |
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Solid Foundation: A Mentored Guide to Continue Building Your Purity
by Pure Life Alliance #CommissionsEarned This is the second module in the Mentor Manual Series written by Pure Life Alliance. It will provide journey specific content for a man 9 to 12 months on his purity journey. As with the first module, First Steps, a man and his mentor will explore these further concepts together. Find it on Amazon and look for it in iBooks. |
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Moving Forward: A Mentored Guide to Continuing Your Journey
by Pure Life Alliance #CommissionsEarned This is the final manual in a series of three mentored guides for men on the journey toward living a sexually pure life. It will provide journey specific content for a man 18 to 24 months on his purity journey. As with the first module, First Steps, and the second module, Moving Forward, a man and his mentor will explore these further concepts together. Find it on Amazon and look for it in iBooks. |
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The Personal Toolkit
by Freedom Begins Here 30 Devotional Journal/workbook with DVD training including testimony by Gary Smalley and Clay and Renee Cross. Teaching by Dr. Mark Laaser, Deb Laaser and Dr. Gary Smalley. |
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Rethinking Sexuality
by Juli Slattery #CommissionsEarned This ground-breaking resource challenges and equips Christians to think and act biblically and compassionately in matters of sexuality. Sexual abuse, sex addiction, gender confusion, brokenness, and shame plague today's world, and people are seeking clarity and hope. By contesting long-held cultural paradigms, this book equips you to see how sexuality is rooted in the broader context of God's heart and His work for us on earth. It provides a framework from which to understand the big picture of sexual challenges and wholeness, and helps you recognize that every sexual question is ultimately a spiritual one. It shifts the paradigm from combating sexual problems to confidently proclaiming and modeling the road to sacred sexuality. |
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Clean
by Doug Weiss #CommissionsEarned In Clean Dr. Douglas Weiss offers a proven path to purity and gives men the tried and true tools they need to find freedom for a lifetime. He also offers a unique theological perspective on the true nature of the battle. The enemy of our souls uses sexual addiction as a distraction to keep believers from pursuing their God-given purpose. However, as Dr. Weiss pulls back the curtain on this charade, men will discover the power of God's love to restore their souls and reclaim their lives. |
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Healing the Wounds of Sexual Addiction
by Mark Laaser #CommissionsEarned Probably the most thorough Christian book on the causes of and recovery from sexual addiction. For the recovering addict or anyone working with sexual addiction, this book is a must read. |
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Steering Clear
by Earl Wilson #CommissionsEarned Detailed disection of the issues and mental errors that lead to sexual addiction and moral failure. A hard look at oneself and what it takes to turn life around to one of sexual purity. |
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The Final Freedom
by Doug Weiss #CommissionsEarned Sex addiction affects millions of people's lives today, and is on the rise with the internet. This solution focused book offers an intelligent understanding of sexual addiction as well as practical remedies. |
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Sex, Men and God
by Doug Weiss #CommissionsEarned This book is not specifically about sexual addiction, although parts of that are discussed. The book looks at sexual conditioning, sexual brokenness, and specific tools to rebuilding intimacy not discussed in other books here. |
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In the Shadow of the Net
by Patrick Carnes #CommissionsEarned It's 3:30 a.m. and Kevin is still online, absorbed in pornographic images flashing across his computer screen, and searching for more. Hours ago he tucked his children into bed and said good night to his wife, retreating to the computer to "finish up some work." Although his late night ritual leaves Kevin ashamed and exhausted, he is too embarassed and guild-ridden to seek help. He tells himself that no one would understand anyway. |
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Sons Of The Father: Healing the Father-Wound in Men Today
by Gordon Dalbey #CommissionsEarned It’s the same everywhere I’ve ministered around the world--regardless of nationality, race, age, education, or social status. We men today are abandoned and left unequipped for manhood. The father of Lies capitalizes on our shame and blackmails us into isolation, denial, and a host of bogus cover-ups—from money and guns to alcohol, sex, and performance religion. Meanwhile, the true Father of all men has come in Jesus to draw us back to Himself and to the man He created you to be. |
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Wired for Intimacy
by William M. Struthers #CommissionsEarned How Pornography Hijacks the Male Brain. This book goes into detail about how pornography and fantasy affect the male brain and become addictive. A look at this addiction through a very different lense. |
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When Good Men are Tempted
by Bill Perkins #CommissionsEarned Men know all about their need for sexual purity. What they want is a plan that will enable them to attain it. In the midst of a culture that shouts “Sex!” from every corner, men need a friend to talk honestly about how to master lust and achieve control over this crucial area of their lives.Bill Perkins details a proven biblical strategy for sexual integrity. He shows men how to achieve a purity that will flow from their relationship with God and strengthen their self-respect, the sanctity of their marriage, and the security of their families |
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Out of the Shadows
by Patrick Carnes #CommissionsEarned Understanding Sexual Addiction. Dr. Carnes was a poineer in studying and treating sexual addiction. This is his first book on the subject. This is not a Christian book but was included as it was the basis that many other books here were founded on. This book contains several graphic descriptions some may want to avoid. |
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Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing
by Jay Stringer #CommissionsEarned This is a ground-breaking resource that explores the “why” behind self-destructive sexual choices. The book is based on research from over 3,800 men and women seeking freedom from unwanted sexual behavior, be that the use of pornography, an affair, or buying sex. |
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10 Lies Men Believe About Porn
by Stephen Kuhn #CommissionsEarned Best used during the first year of recovery. An inspection of the false assumptions men often have that lead to trying harder but not succeeding and how to replace this with a relational approach to healing. Presented through a Biblical lens. |
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Open
by Craig Gross #CommissionsEarned Despite high-minded ideals, temptation always seems to loom around the corner, threatening to derail us into a desperate world of secret behavior and covered-up indiscretions. Why do people make poor decisions that lead to life-shattering results? Gross says it's a lack of accountability. Revealing specific reasons why it's missing, what's required to get it back, and the ins and outs of incorporating it into your life, he offers sound counsel to overcome addiction and escape the trap of unhealthy influences. |
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Grace-Based Recovery
by Jonathan Daugherty #CommissionsEarned One of the most exciting and original books we've seen in a long time. What Grace-Based recoery is, what it is not, and principles to help deepen recovery. |
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False Intimacy
by Harry Schaumburg #CommissionsEarned A very different look at recovery from the standpoint of relationships between spouses and between each of us and God. Not a "just try harder" book. Particularly good for men starting their second or third year of recovery. |
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Illusions of Intimacy
by Signa & Conlee Bodishbaugh #CommissionsEarned Practical, Godly advice in which freedom from bondage to pornography and lust can be found. Includes testimonies of men and women who have excaped the trap of compulsive addictions to live healthy, productive, fruitful lives |
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Becoming a Man of Valor
by Dr. Mark Laaser #CommissionsEarned Integrity and honor are elusive in a world that has lost its moral compass, yet every man should strive to possess those qualities. "Becoming a Man of Valor" will take you on a journey to engage this wisdom from the life of Jesus |
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Taking Every Thought Captive
by Dr. Mark Laaser #CommissionsEarned Lust, greed, pride, arrogance...Where does it all come from? We are facing the same kind of moral decline that was the ruin of countless cultures before us. In a world full of immorality, how do we take the first steps toward change? Every temptation begins with a thought. There has never been a more difficult time to resist temptations of all kinds. Taking your thoughts captive is essential in today's world; the mind can be either evil, according to the ways of the world, or good, as it is transformed into God's will. |
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Winning the Battle Within
by Neil T. Anderson #CommissionsEarned One of the more excellent books on looking into the heart of what leaves so many trapped in compulsive sexual sin and what God's role is in helping them become released from it. |
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Pure Desire
by Ted Roberts #CommissionsEarned Sharing his personal story of struggle and victory, Roberts tackles the difficult issues of sexual addiction and pornography. This book does touch on psychological issues but focuses primarily on the spritual aspects of sexual addiction and recovery |
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Undefiled
by Harry Schaumburg #CommissionsEarned Amid the chaos of cybersex, impersonal sex, adultery, homosexuality, and sexual dissatisfaction in marriage, Undefiled calls readers toward a new kind of spiritual and sexual revolution. Sexual impurity creates a vicious circle, one that springs from misconceptions about Christ and further taints our understanding of Him. Yet another circle is available to men and women trapped in sexual sin, a circle of sexual redemption. |
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The Game Plan
by Joe Dallas #CommissionsEarned You need a powerful strategy to get free and stay free from sexual sin. The Game Plan was designed specifically for men by well-known Christian counselor and speaker Joe Dallas. Based on his own hard-earned lessons and sound biblical principles, Dallas's proven five-point strategy will help you overcome sexual snares. |
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At the Altar of Sexual Idolatry
by Steve Gallagher #CommissionsEarned Workbook for group use sold separately. Gallagher exposes the inner workings of sexual sin in the heart, which the author understands, having lived in the bondage of it himself for over twelve years. What is presented in this book is firmly rooted in Scripture and always points the man to Jesus Christ as the ultimate answer to his problem. |
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Secrets
by Jonathan Daugherty #CommissionsEarned A true story of addiction, infidelity and second chances. Jonathan reveals: the nature and danger of secrets, the consequences of emotional detachment, insights for dealing with addiction, death, brokenness and healing, and the secret to living a life of peace and joy. |
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When Lost Men Come Home
by David Zailer #CommissionsEarned A Journey to Sexual Integrity. David does an excellent job of going beyond "stopping negative behaviors" and speaks very clearly about recovery being a change at the heart level. This book is written from a 12-step perspective but key concepts used in psychologically-based groups are also present making this a book any group could benefit from. This book is especially good for newer Christians and people struggling with multiple addictions. |
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I Surrender All
by Clay Crosse, Renee Crosse, & Mark Tabb #CommissionsEarned Clay Crosse tells his story about how pornography use threatened his marriage and career. Renee shares in vulnerable honesty how she came to see what she needed to confront in her own life as her husband sought freedom from his sin. A practical and realistic look at what is required to break free from bondage. |
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Porn Nation
by Michael Leahy #CommissionsEarned Conquering America's #1 Addiction. Bringing his firsthand experience to bear, Leahy candidly examines our nation's greatest addiction. Learn how he conquered his own 30-year habit; how this disturbing trend alters our perceptions---and what we can do about it. Discussion Guide for group use sold sepparately. |
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Crazy Good Sex
by Dr. Les Parrott #CommissionsEarned This book uses Biblical references and human study to debunk myths about sexuality that prevent optimal intimacy between husband and wife. |
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The Purity Principle
by Randy Alcorn #CommissionsEarned While this book does not address sexual addiction, it has several points about the general pursuit of sexual purity that are relevant. |
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Pure Eyes
by Craig Gross & Steven Luff #CommissionsEarned In this straightforward book, Craig Gross and Steven Luff help men understand and embrace the true purpose and role of sex in their lives. Whether single or married, all men must cope with sexual temptation--sometimes on a daily basis. This honest treatment of an uncomfortable issue will free men to experience forgiveness and renewal. |
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The Cure
by John Lynch, Bruce McNicol, Bill Thrall #CommissionsEarned This book takes a challenging, thought provoking, fresh approach to a very simple truth: God loves you. No matter what. The Cure reminds us that without the foundation of Gods love and more specifically the Gospel, our effort to beat sin falls short. |
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The Search for Significance
by Robert McGee #CommissionsEarned Overcoming the fears and doubts that drive our sin. Discusses four false beliefs that, while the book does not say this, are key issues in the formation of sexual addiction. Contains exercises to help readers evaluate where they are at as well as helping us to move beyond our false belief systems. |
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Bo's Cafe
by Bill Thrall, Bruce McNicol, & John Lynch #CommissionsEarned A fictional story demonstrating how we can assist each other in finding our way out of the messes we create in our own lives. A great illustration of how Christ-focused community (or support groups) can work effectively. Also had great analogies for recovery. |
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The Other Side of Black Rock
by John W Fort #CommissionsEarned A Christian fantasy novel set in a medieval world where a boy grows into a man feeling inadequate and misunderstood all while trying to determine who to trust with his feelings. He is torn between religious teaching, which don't always appear to be true, and a secret relationship that is forbidden but the only one that appears to value him. The story is an analogy of sexual or pornography addiction in the larger system of society. |
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Addiction & Grace
by Gerald May #CommissionsEarned Love and Spirituality in the Healing of Addiction. This book does not exclusively speak to sexual issues but does address sexual and intimacy addiction. This has been a key book in helping men and women who struggle with sexual purity find peace with God. |
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7 Principles of Highly Accountable Men
by Dr. Mark Laaser #CommissionsEarned It's hard to admit fault, defeat, or weakness, but the reality is we need each other. People are broken. People have shame and shame is the root of sexual addiction. Dr. Laaser uses Scripture and traditional twelve-step programs to encourage personal change. These principles can be applicable to both men and women seeking accountability in their lives. |
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Wild at Heart
by John Eldredge #CommissionsEarned While this book does not appear on the surface to have anything to do with sexual addiction, it focuses on the relational brokenness that is the very root of sexual addiction. Workbook for group use sold sepparately. |
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Tired of Trying to Measure Up
by Jeff VanVonderen Getting Free from the Demands, Expectations, and Intimidation of Well-Meaning Christians. For Christians who live under a deeply ingrained code of expectations and rules that shame them and drain them of spiritual strength. By uncovering these wounds that often are a driving force behind issues like sexual addiction, a healing process begins that will bring us closer to discovering the abundant life that God has promised. |
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The Bondage Breaker
by Neil T. Anderson #CommissionsEarned Harmful habits, negative thinking, and irrational feelings can all lead to sinful behavior and keep you in bondage. If you feel trapped by any of these strongholds in your life, know that you are not alone—you can break free. |
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#CommissionsEarnedThe Wounded Heart
by Dan Allender #CommissionsEarned Hope for Adult Victims of Childhood Sexual Abuse. Almost everybody knows a victim of childhood sexual abuse---perhaps the most soul-deadening trauma there is. In this Christ-centered resource, Allender assures adult survivors that there is a way out of the rage, fear, and confusion - and offers their spouses, families, friends, and counselors specific ways to help the healing process. |
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Conquer Series
with Ted Roberts (DVD available for use at PLA Office) The Conquer Series is a powerful cinematic study that is transforming the lives of men around the world. Now in two action packed volumes, each containing Biblical teaching and proven principles to help men conquer porn and walk in free |
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Clean DVD
by Dr. Douglas Weiss (DVD available for use at PLA Office) #CommissionsEarned In Clean Dr. Douglas Weiss offers a proven path to purity and gives men the tried and true tools they need to find freedom for a lifetime. He also offers a unique theological perspective on the true nature of the battle. The enemy of our souls uses sexual addiction as a distraction to keep believers from pursuing their God-given purpose. However, as Dr. Weiss pulls back the curtain on this charade, men will discover the power of God's love to restore their souls and reclaim their lives. |
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Pure Life Alliance receives a portion of the proceeds from any book purchased in this way.